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Row, Row, Row

February 20, 2011 by Leah Halvorsen

We have all heard this childhood song a million times:

Row, row, row your boat.
Gently down the stream.
Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily,
Life is but a dream.

Wait a minute! What? Life is but a dream? If we disregard for the moment, the metaphysical, matrix-like implications of this wee song, what else is here?

In my dreams, some stories are typical and others are surprising or puzzling. I am able to go along for the ride, or create a different experience on purpose. It sometimes sounds like this: “Yikes, I am scared in this dream. I need to open my eyes. No, wait…I am going to run!” Or “wow this dream in really nice. I want to stay here”. Then I wake up and am either happy to be away, or trying to find my way back to the sleep induced wonderland I just emerged from. Ah dreams…

So when I consider how life is like a dream–IN LIFE, I AM IN FACT able to go along for the ride, or create a different experience on purpose.

Really, we could talk about the value of dreams (symbolic and real) from many perspectives, and I could be writing all day. What comes up for YOU, on the topic of dreams?

To be ourselves causes us to be exiled by many others, and yet to comply with what others want causes us to be exiled from ourselves.

~ Clarissa Pinkola Estes

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